Have You Pictured Yourself Succeeding Yet?

Hey Bolder Sisters, This week, and for the next three weeks actually, I will be working on a special assignment on my job. The assignment is one I created after asking questions and looking at the greatest needs of the people the organization serves. While it’s just the second trial run, my anxiety is on overdrive. I keep picturing myself delivering the material and what the … Continue reading Have You Pictured Yourself Succeeding Yet?

What I Learned From a Bold Chat on Relationships

Last weekend I was asked to facilitate a conversation with about 30 women on various topics. Of course we discussed goals for 2017 and loving ourselves and then as all conversations with women usually lead, we talked about men and relationships. This group of women were bold, awesome and feisty, but asked real questions about things that concerned them most. About an hour into our … Continue reading What I Learned From a Bold Chat on Relationships

Are You Waiting on Someone Else to Validate You?

I was reminded this past week that I must stop seeking approval and validation from others. Of course it feels good for most of us when others recognize our success or the amount of effort we put into something. But when they don’t give us our props it doesn’t make us any less worthy of hearing that truth. Your validation must come from you and … Continue reading Are You Waiting on Someone Else to Validate You?

You Have Not Because You Ask Not

Last week I attended my first taping of the Steve Harvey daytime television talk show. I have pictured myself sitting on his set, looking fly, pretty much since his show began. Albeit I saw myself as an official guest promoting my coaching services and book, and not necessarily in the audience. But hey, I was still super stoked to be in attendance. I have been … Continue reading You Have Not Because You Ask Not